MayaAngelou, the famous African-American poet and author of many books, often spoke about forgiveness, and the most powerful of her injunctions was this: “Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give yourself: It’s not for the other person.” What a powerful statement that is, and almost impossible for us to live out in these days of such deep divisions in our society, when too many of us walk around wary and even borderline angry, whether over the divisions in politics, ethnic loyalties, wealth and income levels, educational opportunity, or beliefs about morality and religion.