The winter evening was mild on Feb. 5, 1987, when he came into the world. I cut the umbilical cord that attached him to his mother, and took him into my arms…he looked up at me with that ever-smiling “James” face…he had just met his Father on earth. I will never forget. As his earthly Father, I deeply loved my son and I welcomed him as he cuddled in my arms. On that day in February at Martha Jefferson Hospital in Charlottesville, Virginia, his mother Ginger Bauler, James and I became a family