That Little Voice I’ve been fortunate during my lifetime to have many friends: close, distant, long term, current, male, female, loving, irritating, supportive, honest, sick, active, men, caring, needy, surprising, disappointing, spiritual, obscene, sane, funny, meditative, organized, females, cluttered, black, white, oriental, crazy, demanding, creative, bisexual, nerdy, argumentative, sexually actives, foreigners, virgins, natives, handicapped, athletic, smart, and not so bright. As I have thought about the different characteristics I have been attracted to, I’ve wondered in what category they each would place me as a friend.