On a recent Zoom call, someone asked, “What do you do to nurture yourself? Where do you find comfort?” The answers came fast and fragrant: hot, sudsy baths (the group was all women, so of course), curling up with a good book, snuggling with a snoring pet, massages, facials, walks in nature, and bingeing on Netflix until the popcorn ran out. Each response was revealing and made me realize I didn’t have an instant one.