When we become mothers, we have no idea what we are getting ourselves into. What did we think? That having a baby was like getting a new puppy? Oh, how cute. Not even close. For me, the first time I held and admired my baby boy, it hit me like a freight train that I just set myself up for a lifetime of worry. No one warned me about this. I was overwhelmed. When I had that realization, I think I cried non-stop for the next three days. I knew that one day he would grow up, move away, I wouldn’t know where he was, who he was with or what he was doing. You think the worry might ease when they grow up but it only gets worse. Even now, I can get anxious with worry when there’s no reason to worry at all. It’s awful. But all that aside, if you raise them right, which is the goal, they’ll be there for you when you need it. No mother is perfect and we all make mistakes along the way, but unconditional love, listening to what they have to say without judgment and respecting them goes a long way to ensure they are on the right track to be healthy, happy and independent individuals. I think I at least succeeded in those things.