How Private Should a Death Be?

Dear readers, one of the hardest things in life is grieving the death of a loved one. Not all of us grieve in the same way, assuredly, and some of us are never allowed to grieve properly when a loved one suddenly disappears without a trace, gone for years on end, never to be heard from again.But when a loved one dies with detailed instructions to survivors NOT to recognize that death in ANY way…